About - IADC in New Zealand

What is Induced After-Death Communication?

Induced After-Death Communication (IADC) is a brief, evidence-informed therapy designed to support people experiencing unresolved grief following the death of a loved one. It can be particularly helpful when grief feels “stuck” — for example after a sudden loss, when there are unfinished conversations, or when a strong sense of longing continues over time.

The method uses guided eye movements, similar to those used in EMDR therapy, to help the brain process unresolved emotional bonds connected with the loss. Many people find that the emotional intensity of grief softens during the process, allowing memories of the person who has died to be held with greater calm and integration.

Some people report a sense of connection, reassurance, or emotional closure. Others experience a quiet sense of relief or peace, without any imagery or unusual experiences.

Importantly, IADC does not require spiritual beliefs, and experiences are not interpreted or explained by the therapist. The focus remains on the emotional impact of the process and the easing of distress.

The Origins of IADC

While IADC can sound unfamiliar at first, the approach has its roots in the clinical work of psychologist Dr Allan L. Botkin, who developed the method while working with veterans in a hospital setting. IADC is designed to help the brain process unresolved grief and emotional pain. Many people experience a meaningful sense of peace, resolution, or connection during the process. Others simply notice a softening of grief, without any specific imagery or experience. The effectiveness of IADC does not depend on holding any particular spiritual belief, nor does it rely on a specific type of experience occurring. The focus is always on supporting emotional healing in a way that feels safe and appropriate for each individual.

Continuing Bonds and Grief

Modern grief therapy recognises that relationships with loved ones do not simply end with death. Instead, they often continue in new ways through memory, meaning, and the enduring influence those individuals have on our lives.

This understanding is often described as continuing bonds. Rather than encouraging people to “let go”, contemporary approaches recognise that maintaining an ongoing internal connection can be a natural and healthy part of healing. IADC works within this understanding by helping the emotional weight of grief soften, allowing the relationship with the deceased to be carried forward in a calmer and more integrated way.

What Happens in an IADC Session?

IADC therapy is typically conducted over two sessions, each lasting approximately 90 minutes.

During the session, the therapist guides you through a structured process using bilateral stimulation, a technique adapted from EMDR therapy. The focus is on memories and emotions connected with the loss that carry the strongest sadness or distress.

As the process unfolds, the emotional intensity associated with these memories often reduces significantly, allowing grief to shift toward a more peaceful and integrated state.

IADC may be helpful if:

You feel stuck in grief despite insight or previous therapy
You experience ongoing yearning, guilt, or emotional pain related to a loss
You are open to a gentle, experiential therapeutic approach

It may not be suitable for everyone, and practitioners will always take time to discuss your circumstances carefully before proceeding.

Situations Where IADC May Be Helpful

IADC may be particularly helpful in situations where grief is complex or unresolved, including:

Sudden or unexpected loss
Loss involving trauma
Suicide
End-of-life or terminal illness
Longstanding grief that has not eased over time

The approach is always guided carefully and respectfully, with attention to each person’s readiness and experience.

Research and Ongoing Study

Research into IADC continues internationally.

Clinical studies and reports have found meaningful reductions in grief symptoms following the IADC protocol. Research led by Dr Tom Nehmy at the University of Adelaide has reported significant improvements in grief severity and emotional distress following the two-session therapy process. Further research continues as interest grows in effective therapeutic approaches for grief and bereavement.

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IADC is practiced by trained therapists, with training supported by the IADC International Institute.

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